Damn my mom is good. I don’t text her back for a day and she manages to in one text guilt trip me hard core while fucking me over and making me indebted to her. So that it’s almost impossible not to be the bad guy to point out the fucking over and ask for equal treatment with my sister.

I hate it when she goes a bit crazy and unleashes her evil powers. But at the same time, I have to hand it to her.

No wonder I don’t put up with anyone else’s bullshit because my mom is the true Queen of it and nobody can touch her evil powers.

Like it or not, fat people are at war. I’m not hyperbolizing or dramatizing. If you don’t believe me, Google “War on obesity”. Tonight HBO premiered its new documentary series “The Weight of a Nation”. On the premiere page it says “Obesity in America has reached a catastrophic level. Almost every aspect of our lives is threatened. The first step toward ending the damage is learning how to fight back.”

I spend a lot of my time politely asking people to please stop oppressing me. I don’t apologize for that, nor do I begrudge it – it’s proven to be a very effective way to create change and I think that people deserve to be given the benefit of the doubt and the support they need to shift their thinking, and it’s a reasonably pleasant form of activism. I will continue to do it.

But I also have to acknowledge that there is a war being waged against me because of how I look, by people who have been given every opportunity to know better. In concert with HBO’s documentary, I received a Tweet letting me know that Kaiser Permanente is launching the “most aggressive anti-obesity campaign in history.”

They know that there are healthy fat people and unhealthy thin people. They know that not a shred of research shows that any method of weight loss works in the long term. They know that research shows us that we could vastly increase health by providing access to healthy foods, safe movement options, and affordable/free evidence based health care. Nobody is obligated to be healthy or thin; however, I wonder how many people would make different choices if they knew they just need 30 minutes of moderate movement 5 days a week? If they knew that people who choose simple healthy habits have very similar health outcomes regardless of weight. What would people choose if they knew they could abandon the goal of weight loss completely and they could still pursue health. America could be a successful role model for giving people access to health, but instead they are choosing to be a failed role model for thinness - waging war on people based on their appearance for tremendous profit and actively blaming the casualties of the war for the war’s massive failures.

Let’s be clear - they are pathologizing a body size. It doesn’t matter if they say that we need to seek solutions environmentally instead of at the individual level, or if they say that we should have “compassion” for fat people – they are still telling people that is is not ok to exist in fat bodies and that they should see fat bodies as a threat to America. There are tons of thin people who eat unhealthy foods and are sedentary (which is completely their right), but as far as the government is concerned, as long as you are thin you’re part of the “solution,” feel free to do whatever you want. They want people to look at me (and you, if you’re fat) and think “She is part of a catastrophe. She is threatening almost every aspect of our lives. The first step toward ending the damage is learning how to fight back against her.”

I say that if they want a war, I will damn well give them one.

everettodair:

i got 99 problems and society’s attitudes towards sex and sexuality is like 98 of them 


He’s an old fashion gentleman.

It’s funny because that’s not why I love Cap. And I do love Cap… I love him because he’s awkward. He’s out of place even in his own time. What makes him finally a part of the world is the same thing that supposedly makes him less human. He goes from awkward and skinny to powerful and popular and he still doesn’t know how to talk to people. He tries… oh boy does he try. That’s what makes him so adorable- he never stops trying even if nobody believes in him.

He’s an old fashion gentleman.

It’s funny because that’s not why I love Cap. And I do love Cap… I love him because he’s awkward. He’s out of place even in his own time. What makes him finally a part of the world is the same thing that supposedly makes him less human. He goes from awkward and skinny to powerful and popular and he still doesn’t know how to talk to people. He tries… oh boy does he try. That’s what makes him so adorable- he never stops trying even if nobody believes in him.

(Source: whywelovetheavengers)

doctorwho:

Time Lords never forget to bring a towel

A true staple in intergalactic travel

you-only-loki-once:

TARDIS towel

CYNDY. Buy right now or buy later (in a couple hours)?

What’s out there… Can you guys beat it? Can you win?

(Source: yourdarlinglittlesammy)

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spicytaco:

Hyde & Gackt  - Orenji No Taiyou (The Orange Sun)

The orange sun I saw with you at dusk
Making a face about to cry, the big farewell.

Watching your innocent face
As you played in the glimmering waves.
Running all over the beach barefoot,
How I adored you.

Your name we wrote in the sand,
And the shells we adorned it with,
Shoulder to shoulder
We watched as the waves wiped it away before us.

The orange sun I saw with you at dusk
Making a face about to cry, the big farewell.

The blue sky, slows it’s breathing,
To embrace the red setting sun
As I too held you, I closed my eyes.

All the joys and sadnesses,
The countless encounters and partings
Just as it did back then,
The orange sun oversees them all.

Back then we dreamed of an eternity
Laughing, we held each other for so long.

It’s stunning how much I think of you.
That’s all I needed to satisfy myself.
Don’t cry, We can meet again anytime,
Just by closing our eyes…

The orange sun I saw with you at dusk
Making a face about to cry, the big farewell.

No, mom they aren’t strangers on the internet. They went to school with me but moved away.

(Source: teapayne)